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4️⃣I'm not blaming anyone for their mental illness (nor am I saying that the only people who want to get with me are themselves mentally ill.) but it *is* a reoccuring pattern that I'd like to break, and that takes decision making and filtering people out in non-ableist ways (if I can)

Shan Wolf

26 июл., 10:33

5️⃣This is complicated by the fact that I have weirdly fucked up self esteem, and I can't lie and say I *don't* enjoy the attention. I clearly *do* but I'm also finding it's bad for my mental health overall to have someone be all about me rrriiiight up until they point that they aren't.

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Shan Wolf

26 июл., 10:33

6️⃣I try to be communicative about what I want, what I need, what would make me happy, my goals, all of that. I dunno how to talk more about those things without falling into narcissism. So it's a process. It's boundaries. It's noticing patterns and taking active steps to deescalate them.

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Shan Wolf

26 июл., 10:33

7️⃣Fuck does this feel like having to watch over my shoulder constantly, and that is *deeply* frustrating. but we learn. we grow. we adapt. hopefully, if this occurs again, I can put a stop to it in it's tracks and disengage peacefully. We'll see how it goes I guess. 🔚